Should You Get a Man an Engagement Ring?

Traditionally, engagement rings have been associated with proposals to women, but modern relationships are redefining this norm. More couples are embracing the idea of giving men engagement rings, a gesture that symbolizes equality, commitment, and personal expression. But is this the right choice for your relationship? Let’s explore the pros and cons.

On the bright side...

1. Equality in Commitment – An engagement is a mutual promise, so why should only one partner wear a symbol of that commitment? A ring for both partners reinforces the idea of shared responsibility and love.

2. Personal Expression – Today’s engagement rings for men come in various styles, from classic bands to modern, diamond-accented designs. This allows men to express their personality and style through their engagement ring.

3. Breaking Gender Norms – Traditional gender roles in marriage are evolving, and many couples find joy in celebrating their love in their own way. A man’s engagement ring is a step toward modernizing relationship traditions.

4. Emotional and Symbolic Value – Just like women’s rings, a man’s engagement ring can become a cherished heirloom, carrying sentimental value for years to come.

Shut down the opposition...

1. Social Expectations – Although perceptions are changing, some cultures and social circles may still find the idea unconventional. This could lead to questions or judgment from more traditional individuals. However, it is simple to explain that men's jewelry is more traditional than the idea of marriage itself, and that unwarranted opinions cannot change whether you and your man wear engagement rings or not.
2. Lifestyle Considerations – Some men may not be comfortable wearing jewelry due to personal preference, work conditions, or lifestyle factors that make wearing a ring impractical. Remind him that once you are officially married, there is an expectation to wear a wedding band daily and there shouldn't be many reasons for him to not wear it. It is easy to buy a chain to slide the ring on if his lifestyle would make it uncomfortable to wear a ring.
3. Added Cost – Engagement rings can be a significant investment. Choosing to purchase an additional ring means an increase in expenses, which some couples may prefer to allocate elsewhere. There are plenty of affordable materials to craft a man's ring with. We've seen silicone options on Amazon for under $50. This could act as a secondary ring (for travel, exercise, and heavy duty activities) once you receive the wedding band!
4. Misalignment of Preferences – If a man is not particularly fond of jewelry or does not see the necessity of an engagement ring, the gesture may not carry the intended meaning and could feel unnecessary. Let him know that this would be great practice for the wedding band. He'll get used to wearing it so that when it is time for the wedding band, it will be a no brainer!

The decision to buy a man an engagement ring is a deeply personal one, guided by the couple’s values, traditions, and preferences. At Privosa Fine Jewelry, we celebrate love in all its forms, offering timeless and elegant designs for everyone. Whether you choose to embrace this modern trend or stick with tradition, what matters most is that the choice reflects your unique bond.

What do you think about men wearing engagement rings?